The bride canceled her wedding after discovering the “main red flag” with her fiancé.
The 28 -year -old participated in Radet that she was with her 30 -year -old fiancé for five years and that they were planning a wedding later in this fall.
To provide the context, she participated in the fact that the two spent years planning their lives together – including buying a house that together can make a house with their children in the future.
“This has happened a lot,” she confirmed.
But he seemed to be thinking about his future with someone else.
“Well. It turned out that he had already bought a house. But he is not with me … with his mother.” “He did not even tell me that he was looking.”
“It is clear that she found” the perfect place “and convinced him to divide it with it [because] She “no longer wants to rent.” Now, instead of planning our future together, it is financially associated with his mother, who will live there full time. “
When she wondered about her fiancé, he told her that she could move with her future mother -in -law.
“When I asked where to fit all this, go,” oh, well, you can move too, of course! “Just as I was supposed to feel an overwhelming happiness to live in a house that his mother chose, partially possessed, and she is only … there all the time.”
He pushed the groom back, to justify the decision by returning it to the woman.
“I also admit that he did that [because] “I was taking a long time to save her and his mother offered him” a faster way “to have something.
The bride was “shocking and going out” and told him that she needed a space – before finishing the participation.
“The more I think about it, the more I realize that I cannot marry someone who thinks this is normal. Therefore, I canceled the wedding.”
The Al -Khatib family began to “bomb its phone” after it made the decision, saying it was “dramatic” and “exaggerated the reaction.” They insisted that “it is just a house” and they can still “live together”. Even the bride's parents told her that the cancellation of the wedding was “extremist”.
However, commentators on Radet Post agreed with the bride that this was the “giant red flag”.
He did not buy a house. He built a full future with his mother and left you. This is not a mistake … it is a conscious decision to give you priority. And the fact that I think you will only move like a guest in a house that controls his mother? One person wrote, “He does not respect hell.”
The same person added, “This is not just a red flag, it is an offer for them. If you get it, you do not get a husband … You are registered to be the third wheel in his mother's imagination based on symbols. He has already chosen it, and it was not you.”
Another person said that the groom made the bride “a later idea.”
“The kick in the teeth is that he was keen to take care of itself in terms of large tickets, while leaving [the bride] Someone indicated that they were exposed if they should be divided. ”
“It is not only a wedding. It is about the life you will live with. If he puts his mother first [in] Everything or making important decisions like this without you, this will lead to a lot of conflict. ”One user wrote.
“The largest bullet in the world has evaded,” another person declared.
