She says, “I don't.”
Honorary summer bridesmaids after her boyfriend, and the bride asked for huge fees to be part of the wedding, which makes the bridesmaids not want to participate in the wedding at all.
The 24 -year -old unknown moved to Redait in a publication that has been deleted since then to detail her dilemma, saying that she is “enthusiastic and balcony” to be part of the private day of her friend Megan.
Then, “Things took a turn.”
“After two weeks of the proposal, Megan sent me an email that explains in detail” the package and summer summer, “the woman wrote on Radet, according to people.
The expenses included $ 500 per gardome, $ 300 for hair and make -up, and $ 150 as a minimum wedding gift for $ 100 for a bachelor's degree in a luxury resort.
“Then, to stop it, I asked for an additional $ 50 for” various expenditures “, which I still cannot discover.”
When Megan faced the water costs and expressed concern that “a lot of money” for her, Megan claimed that she was “the base”.
She said: “I am just trying to make sure that everything is perfect, and these costs are necessary,” Reditur wrote. ”She even said,“ If you cannot be at my wedding, I understand, but I cannot change anyone else's plans. ”
The discussion and bridesmaids have made it “very embarrassing”.
“I have always been there for her, but this seems to be using her wedding as an excuse to make her guests pay for the day of her dream,” she said, adding that the bride has not spoken to her since the conversation.
“I understand that weddings can be expensive, but imposing fees on people at your wedding, especially your best friend, feels wrong for me.”
While some of her friends have argued that she should take money to soften things with the bride, others said she should “stand to my land” and refuse to pay.
It is clear that it was tearing what to do, I asked the bridesmaids of honor if she would be wrong because she refused to attend weddings.
One commentator wrote: “If you cannot bear it, you cannot bear it. You can simply say, I love you and thank you for asking me to be at your wedding, but it will have to retreat because of the financial restrictions. I still love to attend and support you.”
“If you really, your friend will understand her, but you may have to let things happen based on her response.”
Another user called the bride “Money Hungry”, while someone else said he was “a lot of a friend.”
“Being the bridesmaids are not a subscription service,” someone is harmonious. “If she wants to collect donations, she must start gofundme, not accepting her wedding.”
“If it is really, you will understand that what you ask about you and the rest of the wedding party is too much,” the last Magan described it as “the groom.”
“She asks you and anyone else to pay nearly $ 1100 at her wedding. This is not a friend.”
