Dear Abe: When I approach the mid -thirties, many friends paired and married. How can I manage the friendships in which I approach one friend but I don't enjoy spending time with his new wife? Although it is not publicly offensive, it is not fun to communicate with.
Should I slowly withdraw from the relationship for two years, or do I face my friend about the issue of unwillingness to spend time with others important? It seems that it is alcohol to say, “I don't like to hold on to your husband.” Any advice on how to navigate this sticky mode will be appreciated. – Know them when
Dear, know them: Women move these sticky situations by gathering with “girls’ lunch “, days of spa (if they are in the budget) and exercise. I do not recommend telling her husband recently that her husband is not interesting to social media, because he will not only be received, but also guaranteed that she gets an exposure to you from the list of guests.
Dear Abe: My husband will soon publish his first book. We have waited a long time at this moment and we feel overwhelmed because it will finally get this achievement under his belt.
Although I had no real expectation about a possible dedication, I thought I had got a short male. Instead, the dedication went to a person he did not know personally, and he was completely excluded. His author seized the opportunity to recognize their husband as well as other people, and now I am sad because he will not recognize my support.
I am not sure if I should tell him anything on this topic. If you do so and change the dedication, it will not really be of it. If you wait, I will continue to feel upset. He is a dedicated husband and supports me in everything I do. Is this a big deal just because I feel it? What do you do, if there is anything? – Not recognized in the East
Dear unrecognized: I am sure your husband had the reasons for devoting the book the way he did. Because this is a big deal for you, point to the effect of omission on you. Communication is important in healthy marriages, and if you fill this, this will continue to fade.
Dear Abe: Two months ago, I started seeing a male friend. He is involved with my close friend, but she treats him like garbage. I saw it myself. I am not sorry for his dating; She deserves to be alone. They do not have children. I am not trying to be a fool about this situation. Do you think I am a terrible person? – It is complicated
Dear complex: No, but your former friend will soon be once you arrive. And if you think she is treating her fill like garbage, she wanders around the gates – because a load of them comes on your way.
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