Dear Abe: It has been divorced for 13 years and has come back to Paul over the past five years. Cute urine, helps in things all over the house and loves my friends and family. We share many common interests and enjoy their presence together. We are now thinking about moving to the next step: marriage. We already live together.
The problem is that Paul is not financially responsible. It helps to push bills, and we are a disappearance to pick up the tab when we come out. Earn more than he does, which is not a big problem, but I do not have a pension or significant insurance. If we are married, this will help my insurance problems. Home and origins in my name.
Part of the reason for my divorce was my previous inability to manage money, which prompted us to a world of debt. I don't want to go to it again. I would like to marry Paul, but I don't want to deal with his financial debts. What is the correct decision to be taken? – Stalled on this in Wisconsin
Dear stuck: The right thing for you is to discuss this with a lawyer who can help you know if you really want to be legally married to Paul. Marriage to someone to get his insurance is not the right way to go. Talking to an insurance agent about a program that may be qualified will not only be useful for him, but also useful.
Dear Abe: The daughter of my friend “Buddy's” in an era between the ages of my daughter. It is 11; 10 and 13 mine. I have known friends since young, and our wives agreed well. We live near each other, and this is great, but their daughter “Edie” is a nightmare to stay with us. It means, arrogant, incredibly shameless disobedience.
My wife and I love spending time with Body and his wife. Their younger daughter is 3 and is also great but also very spoiled. We do not want to endanger our friendship, but we are starting to wear us to my hands here without exploding around her behavior. How can we draw their attention without seemed to criticize and disturb paternity and motherhood? – Feded in Illinois
Dear tired: Do you mean Eddie, arrogant, shameful disobedience in the presence of her parents, or is she invited to spend time with your girl separately? If this is the last and you do not want to negatively affect your girls by modeling bad behavior, explain to her that you have “certain rules” in your home and what they are. Make sure that she knows that if you cannot follow the rules, they will not be invited again.
If Eddie behaves badly in the presence of her parents, he told Buddy and his wife separately that although you appreciate their friendship, you no longer want their daughter there because you do not want her behavior to affect your children.
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