The Reddit drama that the user shared multiple angry comments about what is the appropriate behavior, or not, in birthday celebrations that include a cake, children and family literature.
“I was only at my mother's birthday's birthday party.”
“We have requested an expensive cake for her and the cost division three ways with her sisters.”
The man added that his girlfriend's brother, “who never He contributes to any of the common gifts, bringing his two -year -old spoiled child. “
The man said: “While everyone was singing” Happy Birthday “, the child began holding his hands in the cake and licking them, and picking the motifs.”
The man said that he “looks around me in terror”, but the brother and his wife “were only smiling at this, as if it were the best thing at all, and everyone was completely not interested and did not say anything.”
The user said “a little bit of my tongue and did not say anything too.”
However, he finally reached the cake and moved the cake away from the reach of the child. “
The man said that the child “began to wander and scream with bloody killing. [person] On the ground to do what she did and rushed to accelerate the child. “
“People used to say,” Oh, the poor little thing, “follow the man,” and give him the cake. “
The man said that he then told others “quietly and anxiously” that “what the child was doing was not incredibly unhealthy, was not his birthday cake and was great at the age of enough to wait literally in one minute until he got a slice of the cake instead of destroying another person's birthday cake and covering it with his germs.”
The man said he was now said that he “destroyed the Christmas party.” “The entire family reaction,” he added.
“It makes me start asking if you are I am Just angry opening, “follow, and ask others about their inputs.
The reaction of about 6000 people to the post has yet – but not all ideas supported the man and his actions.
One person wrote, “The cake has moved and the young child was appropriate. He seemed to be fine with it. Even if this was bad.”
The same person added, “If they are all well with the child's doing this, I will not eat anything from your girlfriend or her family. You don't know what they think is fine.”
Take the last commentator.
This person wrote: “In the family gathering of another person in his home, they are the ones who decide whether they are wonderful or not.”
“You are not to move the cake – it was possible for many people to move that cake on the instinct,” said the same person.
“I will not make a mistake even in someone to say,” Oh, sorry, I quickly interacted by moving the cake because I did not know if I was worried about getting a little of Abnzer ” – then I looked at chaos.”
However, “You are a little of the A – to explain to them about the germs. Read the room,” the person continued.
“It is clear that they think it is nice and does not care that it is a total (which is).”
Another commentator provided more differences.
“It is worth remembering that the child is only two years old – behavior like adhering to their hands in things and throwing anger attacks is normal from a development point of view of this age.”
The person added, “Of course, no child should be allowed to touch the food of others and move the cake in the interest of everyone.”
However, this person wrote the same, “While there are problems with your partner's family, the child should not be the subject of your right frustration with her family.”
Another person said, “Is this a family that you want to marry and raise children around it?”
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