Kristin Cavallari reveals the qualities she wants in her next partner.
The “Very Cavallari” alumna was answering listener questions on Tuesday's episode of her “Let's Be Honest” radio show when someone asked her to “describe.” [her] The perfect soul mate.”
“I'm looking for someone who is loyal and honest,” Cavallari said, two days after her alleged affairs with Morgan Wallen and Jason Statham were revealed. “I'm a very honest and transparent person, and I want that in return.”
Cavallari — who has three children with ex-husband Jay Cutler — added that she needed someone who could “match” her lifestyle. She wants a partner who is a “homebody” and someone who can “go out from time to time and bring it up and have a good time.”
“I think it would have to be someone at the same stage of my life,” she continued. “I'm not looking to grind anymore. I've kind of structured my life to be the perfect work-life balance.
The “Hills” alumna, 37, explained that she wants a partner who “isn't in a rush and trying to advance his career,” as she looks forward to retiring in the “next few years.”
“He's someone who's not in that hustle mode, not in the mode of having something to prove,” she said. “I'm past that point where I had something to prove, which makes me really happy, because it was fun, and I had that fire in me, but I'm too comfortable with it now, so I need someone to meet me.” there.”
Another quality Cavallari looks for in a partner is their ability to take responsibility — calling the inability to do so a “deal breaker.”
Uncommon James founder also wants someone who has “actually worked through their trauma,” noting that doing that work creates a stronger bond.
“I've really worked through my work, and I want someone who does the same,” she explained. “I think that's a deeper intimacy of being able to connect and really know who you are and how you function in the world and how you've really spent your entire life. To me, it shows real depth when someone does the hard work and gets there and figures things out.”
Cavallari also hopes that her future partner will be her “equal” — someone who “brings a lot to the table” and can “teach.” [her] Things and help [her] Grow and raise it when you need to.
“I've chosen guys in the past where I do a lot of lifting, and I want to save these guys and help them, and I'm done doing that,” she shared. “I want someone to lift me up, and I want to learn and grow from someone.”
Cavallari reiterated that she wants someone who is “really stable, always looking to get better, and always wants to learn and grow.”
Finally, Cavallari said the last aspect she's looking for is someone she has “chemistry and compatibility” with long-term.
“I've realized that it's very difficult to find both, and I won't settle until I have both,” she added. “I have chemistry with probably a lot of people, and that's missing the chemistry piece. Then, I've had amazing chemistry with a couple of guys the last four years, but the chemistry piece is missing.
The author of Balancing in Heels summed up her thoughts by listing her three crucial elements – “chemistry, compatibility and the person’s desire to grow with you.” [and] “To be in the same stage of life.”
She added: “I will never settle for anything less than that.”
Cavallari shared her extensive requirements after confirming that she is single and “not actively looking for dating at the moment.”
The mother of three has had many public relationships over the years. She was previously married to Cutler from 2016 to 2022.
Following their split, Cavallari has been linked to Jeff Dye, Chase Rice, Brody Jenner, and most recently, TikTok star Mark Estes.
Her dating life made headlines earlier this week when her friend revealed that she had been in relationships with Wallen and Statham in the past. In a video shared via Instagram, her friend referred to Statham as the “most exciting relationship she never told anyone about” and teased Cavallari for “getting back” with Wallen after he allegedly “hurt her feelings.”
