Dear Abe: I am 36 years old. When I was 30 years old, I was involved in a 50 -year -old man. He was the only man who was in a deep love. He died unexpectedly from a heart attack, and I am still painful. I often recover that day in my mind. We were deeply in love.
After this loss, I don't see how anyone can compare it. We were very comfortable with each other. He went very early, and I can't go beyond pain. How can I go forward, or will I do it? – Nagy sad in Michigan
Dear survivors: Please accept my sympathy with the loss of your fiancé. You may need to speak with a processor or join the sad support set to help you shock his death. Once you do this, start social media. If you open yourself to new relationships, you may meet someone you also feel comfortable and you can trust it.
For years, I remember a friend of my mother, who was thusing twice and in a long -term relationship after that. One day, she commented: “I cannot overcome it. My husbands were very different!” What I meant was that every relationship was different, but they were all loved and enjoyable. With luck, this may also happen to you if you allow it. You are still a young woman and move to your life. It is within your strength to make it happy.
Dear Abe: I find myself increasingly less patience with my older brother and my older sister. They are constantly lying about the things they have accomplished, which always makes themselves the best. It frustrates me to hear them saying incorrect things.
For example, while eating in a restaurant, my brother told a group of players that he was a great gun coach. In fact, retirement in the Air Force, not navy. My sister claims that she paid 100 % of her university expenditures, although my father is already paying two or three years of tuition fees, rooms and council.
My husband says I should let it go because I only see them a few weeks a year. I don't want to spend time with them because of their ridiculous stories. What is the best response when they say things that are simply incorrect? – Class in Colorado
My dear: There is a way to deal with this is to take your brothers individually and ask about the reason why they feel the need to do so. Tell them that it makes you uncomfortable when you hear them lying, and that they will see less than you if they continue to do so in your presence.
Dear readers: This is my reminder in time for all of you who live where the time to save daylight is noticed: Don't forget the heart of your hours forward One hour tonight at bedtime. Savings start in daylight at 2 am on Sunday. I look forward to that every year because it indicates longer days, brighter days and warmer weather. I find the additional light to be a mood and spectral elevator. The spring has spread almost! – Love, Abe
Dear Abe, written by Abigil van Burin, also known as Jin Phillips, and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Call my dear Abby to http://www.dearabby.com or Po Box 69440, Los Angeles, California 90069.
