Dear Abe: I was thirty years old, and I find myself in a state of “Greek Greek Zafafi”, specifically the scene in which Tula's father called on many Greek men to dinner to try to persuade her to marry one of them. I told my father that I am not interested in dating, but he and his boss tell me about the Roman men who are single in the thirties, and my father wants to “get married and create children.” How do I politely tell him that I am happier and healthy as a single woman, instead of marriage and mother when I definitely know that I do not want to be one?
Over the past ten years, it has helped with my twin brother. I am the children/the main nanny. I am trying to answer my brother's questions about life in the views of their international parents, and I clean my brother's or brother's apartments. My decision was not determined by staying celibate and without children. How can I tell my father politely that I do not want anyone to date, even if some of them are a very nice young man? – Lady of the Roman cat
Dear Lady: At the age of thirty, you should be able to decide on what you want to be your future, without raising arms or “help” from your father. What about telling him in the simple (or Roman) English language exactly what you told me? In terms of, over the past ten years, I have been subjected to a large dose of paternity, motherhood and home management. If this “taste” is not for you, then talk and say that.
You did not mention what your living situation is, but if you still live under the roof of your parents, you realize that the time has come to establish your independence and move on your own.
Dear Abe: A family member moved here from outside the state to work and resides with us. Unfortunately, a few weeks after their big steps, my wife had a stroke. He is now at home from the hospital. We have already offered a free room and council of family members to help move to their new job, but I have never dreamed of a medical emergency.
I want to enjoy my life with my wife separately without Housegueast. I would like a family member to sell his old house, get an apartment or buy another house near his new job soon. Any suggestions on how to accelerate this step without causing tension in the family? How can I make a deadline for the transfer? – Searching for a solution in the West
Dear pursuit: Because of the change in your husband's health condition, your desire for privacy is understood. Talk to a member of your family. Explain that the circumstances have changed since I issued an invitation to stay with you, and ask if this person's function is supposed to be a permanent job. If it is permanent and not temporary, it will not be nervous to sell their house to buy one near.
If it is not permanent, the rental of an apartment will be logical. View to help your relative find one. The conversation should not be a confrontation and should not cause stress. Two of you should be able to agree on a deadline for moving.
Dear Abe, written by Abigil van Burin, also known as Jin Phillips, and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Call my dear Abby at www.dearabby.com or Po Box 69440, Los Angeles, California 90069.
